We have a borderline epidemic on our hands. The events at Santana High, Columbine and at other
schools across the country continue the frightening pattern of
kids shooting kids. The anger and frustration of young people
who don't know where to turn is boiling over into despair and
desperation. While keeping guns out of the hands of our children
is critical, teaching them to value themselves and others is even
more important.
Anger and rage are endemic and systemic problems that are becoming epidemic in our society. The shootings are the most extreme manifestation of an insidious virus that has infected our culture.
Last April, my son Adam and I were interviewed by reporter Mark O'Keefe for the Newhouse News Service' first anniversary story on the shootings at Columbine - "Columbine Shootings Resonate More in Individual Lives than in American Society." During the interview, Mark asked my thoughts on what caused this pattern of behavior.
My answer: VALUES' INVERSION. A values' inversion results when we over-value social approval and recognition, money, material things, power over others, prestige, work and success, and under-value the self-esteem and self-worth of ourselves, and others. It is when this values inversion occurs that we see behaviors that include bullying, as well as the fear and ultimate acting out of those who are their targets.
Fortunately there is
something we can do. We can help our kids recognize and acknowledge
their inner value and their talents so they can use them to make
their lives work better.
We have developed a Personal Pathfinder
value's report, based on the breakthrough science of Axiology,
that can help anyone, from Teenagers to Seniors, recognize and
accept their intrinsic value, teach them how to value themselves
and others, and create a climate that supports positive values.
The insights teens gain from this powerful tool can boost their
self-esteem, get them more comfortable with themselves as unique
beings, and assist those who's thinking reflect frustration, dissatisfaction
or despair.
Read more on the benefits of the Personal Pathfinder Profile... and what the Personal Pathfinder can help you accomplish.
Over the past four decades researchers and academics have studied the values of hundreds of thousands of people from teenagers to Fortune 500 executives using the decade's-old science of Axiology (the study of values and value judgments). We've taken what we've learned and used it to turn the Personal Pathfinder into a Teen Success Profile.
The Personal Pathfinder Profile measures 40 skills, talents, abilities and values in four categories. Click here for more.
Want to learn more about how the decades-old science of Axiology works and why the Personal Pathfinder Profile can measure your values with the precision of a thermometer registering your body temperature?
Click here to read about Axiology, the breakthrough science of human values!
Involvement by someone who cares - a parent,
guardian, sibling, friend, schoolmate, teacher, professional,
health care worker, or in some cases, a total stranger can be
the difference for a troubled teen in need of attention, direction
and love. Providing them with objective insights about themselves,
the Personal Pathfinder Profile will go a long way toward helping
our youth learn to care about themselves and others, and understand
and realize that anger, rage and violence are not healthy solutions.
You can help us make
this happen in two important ways:
First, speak up on the need to address the real underlying causes at the root of this cultural issue. Insist we shift the focus from guns to the fear and anxiety that drives anyone to think that anger, rage and violence are viable alternatives. Let's do this before we lose more of our children emotionally, psychologically, socially, or physically.
And second...
Become a sponsor of our commitment to donate ONE MILLION Personal Pathfinder Profiles to teenagers across the country, and lend your support to a nationwide study of the impact of values on decision-making among teens.
Here's how you join this initiative:
1. You can purchase Personal Pathfinder Profiles for as many teens (or adults) as you would like. The profiles are $50 each (plus $5.95 S&H). We process and mail the profile results to anyone you like, especially teen(s) in your life.
2. For each profile you purchase, we will donate a second profile. Purchase two for $100, we donate two, and so on. There is no limit to how many profiles you can purchase.
3. You and the teens you've sponsored are invited to participate in tele-conferences series on values. You will learn how to use the Value Profile to improve relationships and communication among adults and teens. You will learn about the warning signs, and the loving signs.
4. YOU will be recognized and acknowledged for supporting this effort by having your name mentioned as a donor or sponsor in our study of Values.
If you are a member of an organization,
own a business, or work for company that would like to help sponsor
this project, or you are in a position to purchase larger numbers
of profiles, we welcome your support.
A purchase of 10 profiles ($500) or more gets mention as a sponsor.
For group and corporate sponsorships...
Call our sponsor hotline: 1(800) 7Axelrod (1- 800-729-3576) or, Email us.
For the cost of a video game, YOU will be giving the most valuable gift of all to someone you know and care about, the gift of personal value and intrinsic worth.
You will also make a difference in the life of someone you don't know.
Once again, the investment is $50 per profile
(plus $7 S & H).
For each one you purchase, we will donate another one on your
behalf.
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Three easy ways you can enroll:
1. PHONE: call 1-973-736-1304 . Place your order or leave
a message with how many Profiles you want.
Please also leave your email address. We'll call you back to confirm
your order.
2.
FAX or MAIL: complete the enrollment
form and fax to us. If you're mailing, mail check or
money order to the address on the enrollment form.
3. ONLINE: Use the secure
online order form for instant ordering.
Thank you for your contribution and generosity.
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Read More...
Teen Success Profile measures... these 40 skills, talents, abilities and values.
Benefits of the Personal Pathfinder Profile... what the Personal Pathfinder can help you accomplish.
Science of Values... learn how the decades-old science of Axiology works and why the Personal Pathfinder Profile can measure your values with the precision of a thermometer registering body temperature.